Yes, a getting a blow job hurts most men who have phimosis or have just cured from phimosis. It all boils down to how sensitive your glans is.
Lot of men with phimosis have extremely sensitive glans (head). Glans have always been covered inside the foreskin since you were a baby, since glans hadn’t seen the outside world, it is bound to be sensitive. Additionally, glans are supposed to be sensitive because it is the glans which is biggest source of pleasure while having sex, or blowjob in men.
This is common and not to worry about. Curing this will take its own sweet time and here are the things you can do to treat it:
The fundamental thing to do here is to expose your glans as much as possible. Expose it to air, water, and cloth.
- Retract your foreskin when showering. Apply warm (not hot) water over your penis and bring the warm water in contact with your glans.
- Use shower head in your bathroom, turn it on and shove it under your foreskin so that it reaches the glans. Use the pressure according to your comfort.
- Use castor oil, apply it over the tip of your glans and try to touch the glans softly. Castor oil is viscous and creates a thick layer over glans which makes it easy to touch with normal hands. Castor oil is also extremely good for stretching and has anti-fungal properties too.
- While masturbating, expose your glans to air for a longer period than what you usually do.
- While masturbating, use a lubricant such as castor oil, coconut oil or any other lubricant and grip over the tightest part of your foreskin. While doing the gliding motion, use your thumb (or any finger) and try to touch your glans while you continue to masturbate.
- Whenever you pee, retract your foreskin as much as possible and clean the foreskin and glans with water.
- Wear treatphimosis rings whichever size that fits you and continue to put it on for several hours a day. Wear it even when you wear shorts, under garments or pants. Yes, the glans will stick to the inside of your under garment but it is worth the small pain of retracting the glans from the under garment.
These exercises would help a lot and reduce sensitivity of your glans over time.